Self Motivation

Friday, April 17, 2020

Hello Again

Soweto, South Africa
Been away for a little while on most of my social media platforms and I have been thinking of a
new direction that I would like to take going forward. The more I think the more
things change around here and the world, so far I don't know if it is for the good or not but
on my side things have just not been great (I won't bore you with the ins and outs 
of my life but I will say that this social distancing dilemma just made things a little 
more challenging on the personal side of things). 

I have been thinking about www.aroundsoweto.com alot and I have to say the previous year
 I have been working towards the content that
I would like to produce and this isolation period that is upon us 
has made it challenging but in a good way because I now get to be at home and work on the content 
at a greater scale which is awesome. 

The show must go on...


Being in the township during a pandemic/self-isolation time like this is really tricky but
I will get into it at detail on a post that I'm working on that is going up on Tuesday
 (please look forward to it).

My social media is dead. the last post that went up on my YouTube Channel was
in December, Instagram?! I just don't want to think about it LOL but I have to
and will be sharing more content there, but I'm tired of the overly curated feed but still love taking beautiful pictures a balance will need to be establish there.

Typing out this blogpost is therapeutic, it is like I'm in a meeting but with myself and mentality (",)
anywhooo just thought that I should come on here to say Hello Again.

I promise this time I will see you soon.

xx

Zanele

Hello Again

Monday, February 11, 2019

Monday Motivation | My Instagram Quotes

Soweto, South Africa




If you are having a challenging Monday here are a few quotes to keep you calm. 

See you soon. 

xx

Zanele 

Monday Motivation | My Instagram Quotes

Monday, May 8, 2017

Clere Radience | Meet Your Beautiful High Tea

On a rare occasion I got to dress up, wear full face makeup and attend a high tea, 
this High Tea was different because not only were we there to celebrate Clere Radience as a brand
we were there to get some words of wisdom from women that we admire and aspire to become. 

Last week I was lucky enough to score myself an invite to 
the Clere Radience Meet Your Beautiful High Tea
The event had key note speakers in Career and Education Sithembile Mfeyela who spoke to us with grace and intelligence, for the inner Soul Enrichment Ofentse Lephoko
because lady when times get tough one needs look within and Entrepreneurship and Business Unathi Msengana gave us a lot of insides into working hard and knowing your worth. 

I love events that just motivate you and re-ignite your passion for your craft. 
As women we have to work extra hard on each and every sphere of our lives and without taking time
to appriciate what we have achieved so far.

Motivated!!! Yes I am. 

The High Tea was held in a very beautiful venue Shepstone Gardens in Houghton 
(a girl from Soweto with her little blog made it to Houghton, #DivineTimes), 
the food was great and new friends I made will forever cherish. 

Clere also offered us hand massages and facials but I ended up doing my hands only,
cause I had a whole load of makeup on. 

Thank you very much Clere for the invite and the great words of wisdom received. 

Forever grateful. 

xx

Zanele

Clere Radience | Meet Your Beautiful High Tea

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Quotes For Coping


The type of week I had deserves these quotes*.
xx
Zanele

“Sometimes I just think depression's one way of coping with the world. Like, some people get drunk, some people do drugs, some people get depressed. Because there's so much stuff out there that you have to do something to deal with it.” 
― Ned Vizzini, 

“It's funny: I always imagined when I was a kid that adults had some kind of inner toolbox full of shiny tools: the saw of discernment, the hammer of wisdom, the sandpaper of patience. But then when I grew up I found that life handed you these rusty bent old tools - friendships, prayer, conscience, honesty - and said 'do the best you can with these, they will have to do'. And mostly, against all odds, they do.” 
― Anne Lamott, Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith

“When a hurricane damaged my father's house, my brother rushed over with a gas grill, three coolers of beer, and an enormous Fuck-It Bucket - a plastic pail filled with jawbreakers and bite-size candy bars. ("When shit brings you down, just say 'fuck it,' and eat yourself some motherfucking candy.")” 
― David Sedaris

“You never really know what's coming. A small wave, or maybe a big one. All you can really do is hope that when it comes, you can surf over it, instead of drown in its monstrosity.” 
― Alysha Speer

“I guess in the end, it doesn’t matter what we wanted. What matters is what we chose to do with the things we had.” 
― Mira Grant, Deadline

“Humor can make a serious difference. In the workplace, at home, in all areas of life – looking for a reason to laugh is necessary. A sense of humor helps us to get through the dull times, cope with the difficult times, enjoy the good times and manage the scary times.” 
― Steve Goodier

“The mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don't feel safe to let people in it is because you're not ready to deal with the pain of honesty.” 
― Shannon L. Alder


Quotes For Coping

Monday, August 8, 2016

Friends I Have Quotes

 
On a sad note my phone was stolen this past weekend and I must say that I'm livid as I had taken pictures for all my content this week and now there is another delay.
I also met people who I went to high school with back in the late 2000's (2003-2007) and they said I've changed, mmmmmh let me think about that for a bit, (YES I have changed), I'm 26 now and not as naive as I was in 2007.

Just thought that I should share some of these quotes with you so that we
can start the week on a great note.

“Friendship ... is born at the moment when one man says to another "What! You too? I thought that no one but myself . . .”
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves

“Don’t walk in front of me… I may not follow
Don’t walk behind me… I may not lead
Walk beside me… just be my friend”
― Albert Camus

“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.”
― Elbert Hubbard

Mark Twain
“Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.”
― Mark Twain

“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”
― Joan Powers, Pooh's Little Instruction Book

“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”
― Bob Marley

“Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind.
"Pooh!" he whispered.
"Yes, Piglet?"
"Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's paw. "I just wanted to be sure of you.”
― A.A. Milne, The House at Pooh Corner

“There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature.”
― Jane Austen, Northanger Abbey

“If I had a flower for every time I thought of you...I could walk through my garden forever.”
― Alfred Tennyson

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
― Jess C. Scott, The Intern

“There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate.”
― Linda Grayson

“Life is an awful, ugly place to not have a best friend.”
― Sarah Dessen, Someone Like You

“You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook

“Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art.... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
Quotes taken from - Goodreads

Friends I Have Quotes

Tuesday, August 2, 2016

My Entry | African Extracts #PurifyOurWorld Competition


Hey guys this is my entry for the African Extracts #PurifyOurWorld competition.

The winner gets to win R10 000 for the Charity of their choice and a years worth of African Extracts Purifying range.



One can enter the competition by simply going to http://www.africanextracts.com  

See my entry HERE https://youtu.be/-qczoSRHFEY


I purify my world by volunteering at my locally based charity called Thembelenkosini Care Givers (Soweto), which is a block away from where I stay. 


The charity works mostly as an after school programme for primary school kids, other than them going home to an empty house (because most parents are still at work from 1pm till 6pm), the kids get to interact with their peers, do some homework, have an afternoon light meal and then play. 


Every now and then then the kids get to be treated with fun and games by going to the local zoo's and exploring Gauteng and hopefully the rest of Africa soon. 



P.S. The competition is open to all residents in South Africa and runs from 9 June 2016 to 30 August 2016.

My Entry | African Extracts #PurifyOurWorld Competition

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